"how did I forget about him?"
I don't know why but lately i got asked about this question alot. Not saying that I'm the kind of girl that easy to move on because I am definitely not. I'm not sure, lol or maybe my previous relationship have proven something that i didn't notice. Maybe i do move on quite fast these days. idk. lol. Lets just put a proper reply to this question and some tips i guess because i got nothing better to do tonight lol.
"I can't forget about him/her", "I want him back" and "I can't lived without him/her". those are probably the most frequent sentence people who really loved someone would say if they are experiencing a breakup. I learn this the hard way, if you're not needed in that person's life anymore so why are you holding back and opportunity to find a better person than the previous. it took me a years to actually believed that i can lived without that person. I've been doing pretty well before that person entered my life. Its is just your brain trying to confused you & your own feelings. so instead of saying this like that, how about give it a try and just lead a life without that person. that person doesn't need you anymore and you can't cling on something that is holding you back. who knows you might find someone better in the future. the key word is "try". Try new things, keep yourself busy, find yourself a new hobby, idk. do something that will take your mind of from thinking about that person.
I know it is hard but if you stay where you are now, you're going to end up feeling alot miserable than before. trust me, I know. I've fallen in love with someone who gives me high hopes but left me, someone who I know that we will never work out but i fall anyway, someone who i thought he liked me but turns out, he likes my friend and someone who i thought was my everything but he turns out to be a real pain (these are just few types of "love" that i have encountered in this past 20 years, lol) i've realized that moving on is actually pretty easy if you know how to. forgetting about that person is a different story because the ugly truth is, you actually can't. you think you've forget about him but trust me there will be 1001 things that can make that person appear in your head just like that and it suck, I know. but its best if you just ignored the feeling and kinda just do whatever you're doing before that person pops up in your head.
Another thing that i would love to highlight in this post is that, some people should really stop be afraid of "being single" seriously. it is not a big deal at all. you can stand on your own feet and be happy. you don't need anyone else. especially if that person if not planning to be "permanent" in your life. That lonely feeling that you're experiencing is just a fake confusing state of mind that make you feel that you need "someone" to kill the loneliness. By the word "someone" I meant boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't you know that even if you are with someone but if he or she treated you like shit, you will still be lonely. So to make this very clear, if you're not happy in a relationship, the maximum count of trying to fix your relationship to me would be 3 and after all that, if it's not working just leave. You deserve to be happy with someone who makes you feel like you worth it and really though, you'll be okay. Who knows maybe you'll be happier with the next person that comes in your life. Life is full with endless possibilities. Anything can happen.
With that being said, i guess this is the end for now. I really wasn't planning on typing so much tonight, but I got so much things to say lol. Anyway I am currently in my semester break. If everything goes well with practical training, hopefully I'll be updating frequently. byee!
I know it is hard but if you stay where you are now, you're going to end up feeling alot miserable than before. trust me, I know. I've fallen in love with someone who gives me high hopes but left me, someone who I know that we will never work out but i fall anyway, someone who i thought he liked me but turns out, he likes my friend and someone who i thought was my everything but he turns out to be a real pain (these are just few types of "love" that i have encountered in this past 20 years, lol) i've realized that moving on is actually pretty easy if you know how to. forgetting about that person is a different story because the ugly truth is, you actually can't. you think you've forget about him but trust me there will be 1001 things that can make that person appear in your head just like that and it suck, I know. but its best if you just ignored the feeling and kinda just do whatever you're doing before that person pops up in your head.
Another thing that i would love to highlight in this post is that, some people should really stop be afraid of "being single" seriously. it is not a big deal at all. you can stand on your own feet and be happy. you don't need anyone else. especially if that person if not planning to be "permanent" in your life. That lonely feeling that you're experiencing is just a fake confusing state of mind that make you feel that you need "someone" to kill the loneliness. By the word "someone" I meant boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't you know that even if you are with someone but if he or she treated you like shit, you will still be lonely. So to make this very clear, if you're not happy in a relationship, the maximum count of trying to fix your relationship to me would be 3 and after all that, if it's not working just leave. You deserve to be happy with someone who makes you feel like you worth it and really though, you'll be okay. Who knows maybe you'll be happier with the next person that comes in your life. Life is full with endless possibilities. Anything can happen.
With that being said, i guess this is the end for now. I really wasn't planning on typing so much tonight, but I got so much things to say lol. Anyway I am currently in my semester break. If everything goes well with practical training, hopefully I'll be updating frequently. byee!
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| gosh he is just so attractive, okay bye haha |
